Life after Death

I had a phone call yesterday to let me know a friend had died.  Vi Kipling is known throughout the UK as a wonderful spiritualist, medium and teacher.

She has suffered for years with her chest and her breathing problems, never once did she worry about dying.  When you talked one to one with her sometimes she could hardly breath but the moment she was due to work with spirit her voice boomed out.  They say that we should be happy to return to our home in spirit but I don't feel that way.  I am frightened of death, never being able to hug my husband or stroke my dogs.  The thought of my mind being stuck in a nightmare, what if there isn't another place and we are left in a state of coma, our minds still working but locked in a place we can't get out of.

I worry about the most craziest things but they are my worries.